All Things Kink

Category: my PERSONAL insight

  • True Lifestylers

    Many times, when people get involved in BDSM it’s for sex. The idea begins with sex and ends with sex. However, once we dive into the lifestyle, we begin to see that sex is just an added bonus and not what bdsm in centered around. We have a subculture in a culture that we live…

  • The want and the NEED

    I have written about the want vs need before. However, I think I am going to elaborate a little bit on it tonight. In kink, the doms wants come first and subs wants second. That is how most dynamics run. Not all I am sure. Then the subs needs come first to the Dom and…

  • Closing time a quickie but a goodie

    Well, today I have a few things on my mind and heart. In kink we dive into a rabbit hole of power, control, but most of all, love trust and connection. Life has a tendency to throw curve balls at us and things shift, grow, change and evolve. When kinky dynamics come to an end…

  • Dollification -Demi-

    Dollification -Demi-

    Hehehe…. interesting title. Well, take a wild guess what I am about to discuss….. dollification and my sexuality. Dollification has always been a HUGE kink of mine. Oftentimes dollification and bimbo play is designated to “Sissy’s” and trans women. However, there is that small population of lesbian studs and stems, that have a fantasy of…